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Culture War Decoders is for readers and hosts who want to disagree better, and to help other people do it too. Here’s how to be part of it.

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Ideas you’ve practiced for years, made for people who’ve never heard of them.

The Culture War Code takes Spiral Dynamics and Ken Wilber’s work to the kitchen table, in plain language, as tools anyone can use. That is the author’s reading of those ideas — not an endorsement by NVC Consulting, Ken Wilber or Integral Life.

Its bet is simple: integral moves don’t have to wait for integral people. With a good structure, ordinary people can make them on an ordinary day. A circle is the place to test that bet, and your community can help.

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